I don’t know anyone who loves uncertainty. Transition is tough—even if your divorce is relatively amicable. The best thing you can do during this time is to manage your stress levels. And to do that, it’s all about mindset. You’ll say a million things to yourself during and after divorce. And no matter how
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How to Determine What is “Fair” in Your Divorce
“I just want what’s fair—no more and no less.”
“How do I know if I’m getting a fair deal?”
Can you relate?
Even when you and your spouse are both aligned in the desire to keep lawyer fees down and your divorce out of court, an agreement rarely comes easily. If you’ve been married…
Summer Survival Tips and Resources for New Co-Parents
Ah, summer. It’s finally here. The pandemic is dying down, and you’re looking forward to the return of some summer “normalcy” with the kids. Relaxing by the pool, sunbathing at the beach, road-tripping as a fam for a fun week of exploring, or whatever it is your clan likes to do …
But wait: You’re…
11 Ways to Get a Fair Outcome in Your Divorce
Divorce is 80% logistics. Preparing, filing, and exchanging paperwork and financial documents. Before your divorce can be finalized, you and your spouse have to get to an agreement on all divorce-related issues. You’ll both feel like you got a fairer outcome if you can agree out of court, so try.
Fortunately, 95 percent of divorces…
Setting Divorce Ground Rules to Stay Focused and Productive
The secret to beginning your divorce on the right foot? You need to set clear, reasonable ground rules. These rules will (if followed) help maintain amicable relationships, direct communication, set expectations, and create a “playbook” of sorts to follow throughout your divorce.
If you and your spouse aren’t seeing eye to eye, you’ll need to…
Who Can Help With My Divorce?
Divorce is a life-changing process that requires significant time, thought, and planning. DIY divorce helps you divorce your way, but you should not try to go through it entirely on your own. Spending a little time and money on help when you really need it is worthwhile.
Fortunately, there is a lot of help available—and…
12 Helpful Resources for Divorced Moms
We see you, moms. You’re doing it all: caring for the kids, balancing schedules, keeping up your home, paying the bills, and (hopefully) making time to rest and recharge so you can wake up tomorrow and do it all over again.
This Mother’s Day, we present you with a list of hand-picked resources for single…
Deciphering the True Meaning Behind Your Ex’s Words
You know your spouse better than anyone—especially if you’re going through a divorce. And while a divorce really brings out one’s true colors, it can also make one’s bark far louder and more threatening than their bite. What your ex says does not necessarily translate into what they truly mean.
To help you decipher common…
Divorce Healing: Embracing Guilt, Letting Go of Shame
You tried your best to make your marriage work, but it did not. Maybe your spouse left you, or perhaps you were the one who filed for divorce. Now, you may be trying to resolve conflicts and forgive your ex. That’s hard work.
But what about forgiving yourself?
When a relationship ends, it’s never 100%…
Best Books to Help You Throughout Your Divorce
Divorce is all about difficult decisions, transitions, and negotiations. You could use all the help you can get, right? While browsing the web and getting advice from friends, your therapist or other trusted people are super helpful, sometimes it’s easier to just sit down and read one complete book on the topic you’re dealing with.…